The Minimalist Guide to Internal Working Models: How Early Experience Shapes Later Relationships

Tuesday, November 22, 2016 by Meg   •   Filed under Sexuality/Relationships

Early life experiences can shape our later relationships and our emotional profiles. 

Upset that you inherited their father's nose? You may have gotten his trust issues as well.

Internal Working Models of Relationships

Your internal working model refers to how you see the world and predict events. An individual's internal working model of relationships is formed in response to the type of care they receive early on. In essence, early attachment changes how you come to see your later relationships and the amount of trust you have for partners. It can also be passed down through generations because it changes how people respond to their own children....  continue reading

On Love. And Hate. And Trump. And Us.

Friday, November 11, 2016 by Meg   •   Filed under General


Trump is the president-elect. I sincerely can’t believe I’m typing that sentence. Because it feels like betrayal. 

If someone called me a “Mexican rapist” and you gave him a hug, I’d not be thrilled. If someone said they have the right to grab me without permission and you give them a job..again, not happy. But I must try to understand. Because this is bigger than me. It’s bigger than any of us.

If you’ve been with me any length of time, you know I’m a liberal, and unapologetically so. But my college-educated, pro-female, anti-bigotry, DEMOCRAT husband’s candidate was Donald “grab-them-by-the-pussy” Trump. Maybe I, for my own sanity, am being forced into a corner. I HAVE to understand. I have to see. Because I know, perhaps better than most people, that not all Trump supporters are bigots and xenophobes. I know, because no way in hell would I marry one....  continue reading

Platonic Friendships, Friends With Benefits and Relationship Complications

Tuesday, November 08, 2016 by Meg   •   Filed under Sexuality/Relationships

In relationship therapy sessions, there is often another individual in the background, underlying arguments and punctuating negative feelings: the platonic opposite sex friend. Often men and women have difficulty seeing eye to eye on this issue. 

But it isn’t their fault. It’s all part of an evolved mechanism that may lead men and women to see these relationships in very different contexts, either subconsciously or right out in the open. But without understanding those elements, it is difficult to work through them....  continue reading

Is America Being Overmedicated? Suffering From Undertreatment

Tuesday, October 25, 2016 by Meg   •   Filed under General

 

In part one of this series, we saw that the pharmaceutical industry has evolved to influence modern care practices in ways that directly impact our health. In part two, we explored the ways that marketing can potentially trigger individuals to seek medications they may not benefit from

However, the issues of overdiagnosis and overmedication pale in comparison to undertreatment....  continue reading

Is America Being Overmedicated? Making People Sick to Make Them Well

Tuesday, October 18, 2016 by Meg   •   Filed under General

In the last post, (Is America Being Overmedicated? Money, Medicine and the Pharmaceutical Industry) we explored the influence of the pharmaceutical industry on health care, the impact of biased research studies and the evolution of big money in health treatment. It is obvious that the drug companies exert a great deal of influence over modern health care practices. 

But how exactly does it trickle down to us?...  continue reading

Is American Being Overmedicated? Money, Medication and the Pharmaceutical Industry

Wednesday, October 12, 2016 by Meg   •   Filed under General

There are many who believe that some normal personalities are patholgized—treated like illness—in a culture where only certain

traits are rewarded (click here for more on that). There is also a tendency to look down on those who have traits that don’t mesh with our society’s version of success. 

However, whether we overmedicate individuals for these traits is a hot button topic.  

Many believe that people are prone to seek drugs based on a misunderstanding of symptoms or for “quick fix” reasons. Others think that parents and schools are actively trying to medicate children to make their lives easier. 

So, are people actually being overmedicated for mental health problems?...  continue reading